Gender predictor: How to tell your baby's sex at the 12 week scan
The Nub Theory and predicting your baby's gender, boy or girl
20 week scan or later to see the genitals clearly. 20 weeks, of course, is a long time to wait if you really, really want to know.
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For centuries, people have been claiming they can predict the gender of your baby whilst you are still pregnant. Some say that you're having a boy if you're carrying all out front or low and a girl if you're carrying all around and high.
Or there's the old 'wedding ring over the belly' trick - if you tie your wedding ring onto a string and hold it over your belly, apparently the way it swings can tell the gender - if it moves in circles it's a boy, side to side it's a girl.
Other gender predictors include the state of your skin or your hair, your mood, whether or not you had morning sickness, the shape of your nose, the colour of your urine, the exact age you were when you conceived, even the position you were in when you got pregnant.
Now though, research is being done into whether or not the gender of a fetus is obvious at the 12 week scan. At the moment, most sonographers will say that they cannot tell you the gender of your baby at your first scan. This is, perhaps, because they aren't aware of 'the nub theory'.
I had two 12 week scans with my current pregnancy - one on the NHS, one privately at the Fetal Medicine Centre - the sonographer on the NHS one told me categorically that the gender was undetectable, the sonographer at the FMC told me that she was 75% positive it was a boy (my 20 week scan confirmed that I am, indeed, having a boy).
The nub theory is basically about 'the angle of the dangle'. Between 11 and 14 weeks' gestation both genders have a penis-like protuberance between the legs. They look incredibly similar at this point, except for the angle at which they are pointing. Sometimes there are males and females at this stage which are in the 'grey area', but essentially a boy's 'dangle' is 30 degrees up relative to the backbone and a girl's is below 30 degrees.
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OK, here are some examples. First, my soon to be born little boy at 12 weeks. I've put a red arrow in pointing to his 'nub', which as you can see is pointing 'up'. Some male foetus shots I've seen have been pointing almost straight up.
Here is a shot of a girl. You can see her nub is pretty much horizontal. You can also see that her nub looks forked at the end. Some people think this means it is more likely that it is a girl, but a fork can be seen in both genders.
If you get your scan at 11 weeks, it can be difficult to tell the difference between the genders. A scan at 12 weeks is around 75% accurate and at 13 weeks it's closer to 95% accurate.
When you go in for your scan, ask your sonographer to get a shot exactly like one of the ones above- the foetus right side on, back flat not curled up and a good shot of the 'nub'.
There is loads of information online about the nub theory. This site has photographs showing the differences between the genitals and includes examples of ultrasound images.
If you've already had your scan and the nub is visible, but you can't work out if it's a boy or a girl, why not go to the In Gender Forum where you can post up your scan on the boards and get members to have a look and make their predictions. There are also threads on which members post up their scans AFTER the gender has been confirmed either at the 20 week scan or at birth.
More on Parentdish:
How to predict your baby's gender using a Chinese Conception Calendar.
The silent trimester: Why the first 12 weeks of pregnancy should not be shrouded in secrecy