Q: I am still breasteeding my two year old and have no intention of stopping. I understand that breastfeeding a toddler makes some people feel uncomfortable so I try to do it discreetly. But people seem to feel free to tell me that I'm doing something absolutely terrible and that my child is far too old. Now I'm feeling paranoid - is it time to stop? I don't really want to but now I'm confused.

A: The short answer to your question is no - if you do want to keep on breastfeeding your toddler, that is your business and nobody else's. It is recommended that a woman breastfeeds her child for at least six months - and the longer the better. So you are simply following well publicised advice on this matter that no one can really argue with.

However, you are of course right in stating that some people feel uncomfortable watching a woman breastfeed. So, if you really don't want to stop but the comments of others are getting to you, then you need to find a coping mechanism that will enable you to keep on breastfeeding.

First of all, if you can't ignore the comments and remarks, have you considered breastfeeding at home only - or in a place or venue you know and trust? At the age of two, it is likely that your toddler can cope with a slightly delayed feed, and it also means that you can breastfeed in peace.

Alternatively, perhaps you could regain your inner resolve and vow that you're not going to be worn down by those who think it is wrong or sit in judgment. The next time somebody feels the need to make a comment, perhaps you could smile sweetly and say that you are following medical advice, and thank you very much.

Or, if you fancy a little mischievous fun, perhaps you could locate a batch of free information leaflets that extol the benefits of breastfeeding, and hand those out to anyone who expresses an interest!

Finally, it would be a shame to stop breastfeeding if your heart says no. So, do try to rise above it and find your own way of coping with this intrusion from people who have nothing better to do with their lives.

Do you agree that breastfeeding in public is a woman's right?