Grandmother becomes one of Britain's oldest mums after conceiving naturally at 53!
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Remarkably, Debbie was still taking the contraceptive pill when she fell pregnant with baby son Kyle - and she needed her reading glasses to look at the pregnancy test results!
The birth has stunned doctors and makes Debbie one of Britain's oldest naturally conceiving mothers as she fell pregnant without any form of fertility treatment.
Debbie, a jewellery assistant, who lives with her partner Paul Clarke, 45, a heavy goods vehicle driver, wasn't planning any additions to her family.
She already has two sons, Mark, 26, and Brandon, 11, and a daughter Hayley who tragically died just a week before her 18th birthday. She is also a proud grandmother to Mark's daughters.
She thought her days as a mother nursing a newborn baby were definitely over, and had been using the contraceptive pill to make doubly sure.
"I'd already given birth to three children, and thought that those days were definitely over," says Debbie.
I was on the contraceptive pill just to make sure, but I never imagined I could ever have fallen pregnant at my age. I'm a grandmother and I love looking after my granddaughters - I never thought that I would be looking after another baby of my own.
Debbie only discovered she was expecting a baby last March, when she was already five months pregnant.
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"I'm a slim build anyway and Mark noticed that my stomach was slightly protruding and he started teasing me that I was starting to put on a bit of weight.
"He joked that I could be pregnant, which seemed impossible, as I was still having my periods. But it niggled in the back of my mind about why I had put on a bit of weight. So I did a pregnancy test just to make sure.
"I thought I was throwing my money away doing a test as I couldn't possibly be pregnant, but when it showed positive I couldn't believe it.
I had to put my reading glasses on to read the pregnancy result, and I was so incredibly shocked. I went out and bought another three tests to make sure. And each one showed the same positive result.
Debbie then went to see her GP, who thought that she was joking when she told him she was pregnant.
"He was so shocked when he realised I was telling the truth. He nearly fell off his chair," explains Debbie.
"He had never before seen a woman of my age fall pregnant naturally. He wished me good luck and booked me in to see the midwife. When I broke the news to my sons afterwards, they were shocked. They never expected another addition to the family."
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Debbie was worried about her age, but she had a textbook pregnancy, with only a small amount of morning sickness in the first few months:
I had been so worried because of my age about whether I was even going to be able to carry the pregnancy to full term because I knew there was a high chance of me losing the baby or giving birth prematurely.
"But I felt incredibly healthy all the way through and only had a tiny bit of sickness."
Debbie had been offered a scan to check for deformities or abnormalities, but she refused.
"I knew there was a higher chance of my baby having a deformity, but I was determined to keep the baby whatever happened, and I knew I would love it whatever the outcome," she explains. "So I didn't want to know, and instead wanted to let nature run its course."
Debbie went into labour in June, and after a normal labour, gave birth naturally to son Kyle at Northampton General Hospital, weighing a healthy 7lb 11oz.
"It was amazing to hold him in my arms afterwards, and I felt the same rush of love that I had felt with my other children," says the proud new mum.
I do get more tired than I did before, especially getting up to do the night feeds. But I do love being a mum again. I am worried about being an older mum and not seeing Kyle grow up, but he has his dad too, who is younger than me.
"Being an older mum has its advantages as I've done it all before. I'm not anxious about every sniffle. And I'm hoping that having a baby at age 53 will help keep me young."
Dawn Brooke, from Guernsey became the world's oldest mum through natural conception at the age of 59, in 1997.
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Mark Sedler, Consultant Gynaecologist at CARE Fertility, said: "Falling pregnant at this age without any form of fertility treatment and for the baby to be born healthy and well is remarkable. The odds are about the same as winning the lottery. It is extremely rare.
"After the age of 46 it is unlikely that women produce good enough quality eggs to fall pregnant, and so in fertility treatment, donor eggs are used.
"Even if they fall pregnant it is then more difficult for a woman of this age to carry a baby to full term. It is more likely that the pregnancy miscarries. For a woman of this age to fall pregnant naturally and for the mother and baby to be both healthy and well is most remarkable."
What an incredible story.
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- Brooke Sheilds<p> The American actress had her first baby, Rowan Frances, at the age of 37. She went on to have another girl, Grier Hammond, with husband Chris Henchy at the age of 40. Brooke, who suffered from post natal depression after the birth of her first child, said the second pregnancy had been "a lot easier."</p>

- Celine Dion<p> The Canadian singer, 42, and husband Rene Angelil welcomed twin boys - Eddy and Nelson - to their family in October after undergoing several rounds of fertility treatment. The couple had their first child together, Rene-Charles, when Celine was 33.</p>

- Cherie Blair<p> The ex-Prime Minister's wife also had a baby later in life. <a href="http://www.parentdish.co.uk/2011/12/01/was-pregnant-cherie-blairs-phone-hacked/" target="_blank">Cherie</a> was 45 when she had her fourth child, Leo, back in 2000. She and Tony already had three teenage children at the time, Euan, 16, Nicky, 14, and Kathryn, 12.</p>

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- Dannii Minogue<p> The 38-year-old X Factor judge and model-turned-fashion designer gave birth to her first baby in Melbourne last summer. <a href="http://www.parentdish.co.uk/2011/11/22/dannii-minogue-takes-bonny-baby-ethan-out-for-a-stroll/" target="_blank">Ethan Edward </a>is the first child for Dannii and her boyfriend Kris Smith, a former England rugby league player.</p>

- Geena Davis<p> The Thelma and Louise star was 47 years old when she gave birth to twin boys - Kian William and Kaiis Steven – back in May 2004. The Oscar-winning actress started late in life – she was 45 when she had her first child, daughter Alizeh Keshvar, with surgeon husband, Reza Jarrahy.</p>

- Halle Berry<p> Academy Award-winning actress Halle Berry became a mother at the age of 42, giving birth to a daughter, Nahla. On becoming a mother, Berry said: "When I looked at the stick and saw I was pregnant ... I was so happy. I thought I knew love before, but I never knew anything like this."</p>

- Helena Bonham Carter<p> Helena was 37 years old when she had her first baby, Billy Raymond, with director husband Tim Burton. The couple welcomed a second child, daughter Nell, to the family three years ago when Helena was 41.</p>

- Holly Hunter<p> Saving Grace star Holly Hunter was 47 when she gave birth to twin boys, Claude and Press. Hunter, now 52, is very private about her family life with actor husband Gordon MacDonald, and has said she doesn't discuss her children with the media.</p>

- JK Rowling<p> The mega-rich author was a single parent on benefits when she wrote the first Harry Potter book at the age of 37. She recalls writing in cafes while she tried to get baby Jessica to sleep. She had a second child, David, with her new husband Dr Neil Murray at the age of 39.</p>

- Julianna Moore<p> The actress says: "I was determined to have a baby by the time I was 36. My son (Caleb) was born the day after my 37th birthday. It was like the universe was laughing, saying, 'You see, you can't control things.'" Julianne was 41 when she had her second child, daughter Liv Helen.</p>

- Kate Silverton<p> The presenter and journalist gave birth to a baby girl, <a href="http://www.parentdish.co.uk/2011/11/11/first-pic-proud-mum-kate-silverton-shows-off-new-baby-clemency/" target="_blank">Clemency Florence Rose,</a> in 2011 aged 41. Clemency was conceived naturally following four failed rounds of IVF. </p>

- Madonna<p> Madonna was 41 when she and Guy Ritchie welcomed son Rocco to the world. The Queen of Pop is also mum to Lourdes, 9, from a previous relationship, and adopted Malawian orphans David Banda and Mercy James, both aged four.</p>

- Mariah Carey<p> Mariah was aged 41 when she became a mother to twins with husband Nick Cannon. The singer chose the unusual names,<a href="http://www.parentdish.co.uk/2011/05/04/mariah-careys-twins-names-revealed/" target="_blank"> Moroccan and Monroe</a> for her new arrivals.</p>

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