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A mum and dad have spoken out after their student son killed himself after suffering with chronic blushing for years.
Brandon Thomas, 20, jumped from his Seattle dorm room on the 11th floor at the University of Washington.
He left a suicide note talking about his problem with blushing, saying:
"It is exhausting to wake up every day and have to find little ways to avoid blushing situations."
Chronic blushing is a reaction caused by an overactive nervous system. It is estimated to affect between five and seven per cent of the population. Brandon had suffered from the condition since he was 15.
Brandon's parents Dawn and Steve, along with his twin Devin, are speaking out about the condition in a bid to raise awareness, as requested in Brandon's suicide note.
"I've had people come up to me, even at his service, and say 'I know, I blush, too, when I'm in public'," said Dawn. "That is not what this is about. One of the reasons he took his life is that if he took this drastic measure, it would raise awareness. He wanted his death to have an impact."
Watch the video above for an interview with Brandon's family.
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Oh poor soul, you have wasted your precious life away like Jesus, non the less is not wasted it has really creating lots of awareness in the society. I never new much about this brushing till now, the word as someone said is sympathy towards each other instead of nasty comments. Thanks to all who has made great comments, never think is not appreciated it is and God Bless all of u for that. It is making an impact in other people's life. Dear Brandon's family please take consolation from people like alexg and others. My sympathy to all of you.
July 31 2012 at 1:08 AM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down Replyvery sad thing. i used to blush and it used to be awful at school. I grew out of it but i do feel for him. I do go red now and then but now i am older dosn't bother me. very very sad.
July 13 2012 at 3:40 PM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down ReplyI used to blush uncontrollably in my teens and lots of people used to comment and make fun of me. I tried everything to stop it, from anti redness tablets to powders and nothing worked. I became very very shy and I did not want to talk to new people. How awful for this young boy, my heart goes out to his family. It is only now that I am in my thirties and I have become more confident in myself that my blushing has reduced. It has not stopped completely but it still does control my life as I will not talk in my meetings for the fear of blushing. Hopefully there will be a cure one day. RIP Brandon xxx
July 13 2012 at 1:35 PM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down ReplyHow awful that this young man with his whole life before him felt the need to commit suicide because of an illness that caused him to blush.
In this day and age surely there was some medication or something to help alleviate these symptons so it couldn't cause embarresment every time he went out. As the piece says when he woke up each day his first thoughts were about what he may face that would make him blush.
And as for the parent saying he did it to bring awareness then that seems very far fetched, what child would conciously decide to die just so other people knew about people with this illness continually blushing.
All I can say is that his parents should be proud to have had such a lovely son.
how old was he and did he have fb
July 13 2012 at 10:14 AM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down Replyhow old was he xx
July 13 2012 at 10:13 AM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down ReplyThis really is an awful thing to cope with, my blushing started about 6 years ago (I'm 40 now) and it is the most detrimental thing to have happened to me confidence wise. I now use Clinique Anti-Redness cream twice daily and a bit of foundation. I go on the sunbed regulary also, and all of this has seemed to help quite a lot.
Just bad when someone in a group has to mention 'Oh, your face is red!' and that just starts me off even more.
I just wish their was a cure, it has held me back in my job for years now, and when out in public in daylight hours - Nighttime hours I'm fine!
Since i was a young boy and into my mid twenties my blushing was uncontrolable, even with my family. Going outside was a nightmare, i just blushed when someone looked at me, i blushed when someone spoke to me, i always took long detours to get where i was going so as not to meet anyone. My life was always in a mess because of this, though there was times when kind hearted girls would say it was cute, i didn't do cute because then the fellows would rile me and call me little cutie, then more bloody blushing. One day i was walking to meet a girl that i had made a date with at a club, i could see her in the distance and started blushing, i started to panic and had to gasp for breath and by the time we met, the blushing had gone and i was the coolest guy i had ever been. Since that day i still blush a little,'spose we all do at times BUT the lesson i learned that day was, inhale and exhale as much as you can, and it may cure the blushing.
July 13 2012 at 8:47 AM Report abuse Permalink rate up rate down ReplyHow terribly sad. My heart goes out to his parents and brother. I am not a 'blusher' but I will be aware in future that when I am in the company of someone who is blushing, I will never comment or make light of it. Clearly this can be very embarrasing for the person concerned, much more than many people may realise. His suicide note to his parents wanted to raise awareness, and I want to assure his parents that his message has definitely been taken on board by me and hopefully many others. That is the best testament to Brandon.
July 13 2012 at 7:53 AM Report abuse Permalink +5 rate up rate down ReplyWell, I've been sitting here trying to think of something, but I can't. Appart from these few words, I am lost for something to say.
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