Only one third of parents read to their children every day. Zoe Ball on why reading together is a time for calm and intimacy
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Only one in three UK parents read to their children every day, a new survey has found.
The reason? Not because we don't know how vital it is to introduce children to reading, but because we're too busy and distracted.
Two thirds of parents feel that modern technology in the home, like computers and games consoles, is taking away from potential story-time with children, according to the survey commissioned by Disney of 1000 parents with children under six.
And two thirds of parents feel too tired to tell stories when they get home in the evening, or get home from work too late.
Lack of experience in storytelling is another inhibition for many - especially younger people. 81% of those over 55 regard themselves as good storytellers compared to just 44% of 18-24 year olds.
What's more, dads are lagging behind when it comes to telling stories - they are half as likely as mums to be found book-in-hand at bedtime, and are less confident as storytellers.
Interestingly, most of us favour reading aloud stories which we were read as children; usually preferring classic stories to making up our own.
Disney launched its Winnie the Pooh Storytelling Academy this week; a website aiming to become an online resource to help parents become better storytellers.
The website offers expert tips on making time for stories at home, on the move and when you're travelling (for instance using multimedia technology like audiobooks, Skype or FaceTime - or just the good old fashioned telephone).
There is also advice on how to feel less self-conscious when reading aloud and how to read in a way your children will find anything but dull.
Celebrity broadcaster and mum-of-two Zoe Ball is one of the advisers for the Storytelling Academy.
She told Parentdish why she feels so strongly about reading to her children, Woody, 11, and Nelly, two.
She said:
Sticking them in front of a DVD, you don't get the same feeling of intimacy. It is hard to have the energy at the end of the day; you can be thinking about the shopping list and work - but then you start telling a story and doing silly voices and you slow right down. It's a really lovely calm moment.
Zoe vividly recalls her father, the TV presenter and maths boffin Jonny Ball, telling her stories when she was a child. "When he told his own stories they were great - he had his own versions of Three Billy Goats Gruff; he would never tell the same one twice."
Her number one book from childhood, she said, is Frog and Toad - "it's such a lovely book about friendship and reminds me of my dad telling it to me."
She also loved him reading aloud to her from Richard Scarry (especially Busy Busy World, Winnie the Pooh, Where The Wild Things Are and The Wind in the Willows, all of which she has read with her children.
As for Zoe's children's modern favourites, she said Woody, who is dyslexic, is 'really into Michael Morpurgo' and used to love the Mr Gum books ('really funny crazy fun to read as a parent').
And little Nelly loves Stuck by Oliver Jeffers, Good Little Wolf by Nadia Shireen and The Day Louis Got Eaten by John Fardell.
Child Psychologist Emma Kenny, another Storytelling Academy advisor, called on parents to read more to their children to help develop their imagination and attention spans - and also just to spend quality time together.
She says:
Sitting down to read a story with your child is effectively a direct message that says 'I really like your company, I value you and I want to share time with you'.
10 top tips for storytelling from the Storytelling Academy
1. Put some theatre into it. Animate your voice, be funny and add humour - it's the easiest way to get a child to interact. You can also use things that are close by to make sound effects, like arm movements for trees blowing in the wind.
2. Have a routine - put aside 15-30 minutes for story-time before bed. This is a wind-down time that can help with bedtime stress.
3. Encourage your child to interact by asking them questions like 'What do you think Winnie-the-Pooh did next?' to develop their imagination and help them to think stories through.
4. Repetition of words and rhythms works well for younger children.
5. Keep audio-books in the car to develop children's listening skills - or tell a story you know well while you're driving.
6. Take an iPad, e-Reader or mobile DVD player on holiday to provide a never-ending supply of stories.
7. There are storybook apps that allow you to record your voice reading the story even if you can't read aloud in person every night.
8. Invite your child to make up their own story - maybe give them a prop like a doll or a picture as a jumping off point.
9. Video your child telling their story and play it back to them, or write a story book together all about them.
10. Don't see story-time as a chore - use it as your time to switch off too. And don't feel self-conscious. There's no one else watching you and if you can make a child laugh, that's the best audience you can have.
Best books for children aged five to eight years
- Pippi longstocking<p> This classic, featuring adventurous and incredibly strong Pippi, has been given a modern makeover, thanks to Lauren Child’s vibrant and distinctive illustrations. Ideal for girls who aren’t entirely pink and princessy –they’ll appreciate a character they can identify with, even if they can’t quite lift a horse one-handed.</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Pippi-Longstocking-Gift-Astrid-%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20%20Lindgren/dp/019278241X/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300875569&sr=1-3" target="_blank">Pippi Longstocking Gift Edition</a>, by Astrid Lindgren, with illustrations by Lauren Child, £9.99, published by OUP Oxford<br /> <br /> </p>

- The global garden<p> Part of an imaginatively designed series which brings non-fiction subjects to life via pop-ups and plenty of other interactive features.<br /> <br /> The Global Garden explains which everyday products come from which plants, picking up on questions which hit the spot with kids, such as ‘where do my jeans come from?’, and ‘what does a chocolate tree look like?’</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Global-Garden-Kate-Petty/dp/1903919169" target="_blank">The Global Garden</a>, Kate Petty, illustrated by Jennie Maizels, £12.99, published by Eden Project Children’s Books.</p> <p> <strong>Other favourites by the same author:</strong><br /> <br /> The Wonderful World Book.</p> <p> </p>

- Horrid Henry<p> You might not like Henry’s horrid exploits (just hope your child doesn’t start to copy them!) but there’s no denying he’s hooking kids into reading. The HH titles are particularly popular for newly independent readers just starting on ‘chapter books’.<br /> <br /> Set them off with this, the original story and they can then plough through the series – there are 19 books so far. <br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Horrid-Henry-Francesca-Simon/dp/1858810701/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1300887571&sr=" target="_blank">Horrid Henry</a>, Francesca Simon and Tony Ross, £4.99, published by Orion.<br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> </p>

- The enchanted wood and Faraway tree<p> Three book series of timeless classics about siblings Joe, Beth and Frannie, and their adventures at a very special tree amidst The Enchanted Wood. There they meet Saucepan Man, Silky and Moon-Face and encounter the magical lands of Birthdays, Goodies, Do-As-You-Please and more.<br /> <br /> Controversially, some of the characters’ names have been changed in recent years - Fanny and her cousin Dick are now Frannie and Rick, whilst Dame Slap has become the more PC Dame Snap (she no longer goes round slapping either) but all the enjoyment of the original remains. <br /> <br /> 'It's about a magic tree with lands at the top. I love the little people who live in the tree and the slippery slip they slide down on,' says Isabella, 5.</p> <p> <strong>Other favourites by the same author:</strong><br /> <br /> The Famous Five<br /> <br /> The Wishing Chair series<br /> <br /> Malory Towers</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1405230274/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_2?pf_rd_p=103612307&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=074974801X&pf_rd_m=A3P5ROKL5A1OLE&pf_rd_r=0TW66B70PEY5XVZ027R7" target="_blank">The Enchanted Wood/ Faraway Tree series</a>, Enid Blighton, £5.99, published by Egmon.<br /> <br /> </p>

- Charlie and The Chocolate Factory<p> The perfect place to start among Roald Dahl’s many magnificent children’s books, although younger children will need this reading to them, rather than managing it by themselves. Reclusive and eccentric to say the least, Willy Wonka decides to let five children into his factory for the day, where ‘marvellous surprises’ await but be warned, they’re not always pleasant.</p> <p> Will Charlie make it to the end of the day and change his, and his impoverished family’s lives? A hugely enjoyable and imaginative morality tale of how good wins over bad.<br /> <br /> 'I have read it and watched the film too. The funniest bits are when the chocolate palace melts on the prince’s head and when Augustus Gloop goes up the pipe!' says Luca, five.<br /> <br /> <strong>Other favourites by the same author:</strong><br /> <br /> All of them! But particularly:<br /> <br /> James and the Giant Peach<br /> <br /> Matilda<br /> <br /> The BFG<br /> <br /> Fantastic Mr. Fox<br /> <br /> The TwitsCharlie and The Chocolate Factory,</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Charlie-Chocolate-Factory-Roald-Dahl/dp/0141322713/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300971321&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Roald Dahl</a>, £6.99, published by Puffin.<br /> </p>

- Flat stanley<p> The extraordinarily-named Stanley Lambchop is squashed by a falling bulletin board. Far from squashing his enthusiasm for life too, being flat opens up all sorts of possibilities. He squeezes his way under gaps in locked doors, doubles as a kite and perhaps, best of all, can be posted to California. Well, it saves on the airfare.<br /> <br /> <br /> Later books see his adventures evolve – Stanley becomes invisible in one and visits outer space in another. A wonderful series for the upper end of this age group to read alone.<br /> <br /> <a href="http:// http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1405204176/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1?pf_rd_p=103612307&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=0061129046&pf_rd_m=A3P5ROKL5A1OLE&pf_rd_r=1BN0H0NK7XGD1P22QT6C " target="_blank">Flat Stanley</a><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1405204176/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1?pf_rd_p=103612307&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=0061129046&" target="_blank">, Jeff Brown</a>, £3.99, published by Egmont.<br /> </p>

- Riddle of the Raptors<p> Two favourite themes of this age group – dinosaurs and space – collide resulting in a series which has been a massive hit. Boys in particular seem to love the mix of fantasy, silliness and adventure.<br /> <br /> With 19 titles to get through, Astrosaurs are responsible for transforming many a reluctant reader into bookshop/ library/ Amazon regulars.<br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Astrosaurs-Riddle-Raptors-Steve-Cole/dp/1849411492/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300974429&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Astrosaurs series</a> –shown here Riddle of the Raptors, Steve Cole, £4.99, published by Random House</p>

- Ballet<p> Whatever your child is into – from ballet to bin lorries and pirates to ponies - there’s probably one of Usborne’s excellent hardback guides on the subject.</p> <p> Carefully chosen language lets newish readers manage on their own yet keeps the 53 titles highly informative. Ideal for children who prefer fact to fiction, or who fancy a change from storybooks. Also worth a look are Usborne’s ‘Puzzle Stories’, such as Puzzle Train and Puzzle School - stories combined with puzzles as the name might suggest.</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ballet-Usborne-Beginners-Susan-Meredith/dp/0746074530/ref=sr_1_22?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300974769&sr=1-22" target="_blank">Usborne Beginners</a> non-fiction – shown here ‘Ballet’, £4.99, published by Usborne.</p>

- The worst witch<p> Mildred Hubble isn’t exactly top of the class at Miss Cackle’s Academy for Witches –she’s forever messing up her spells and crashing her broomstick.<br /> <br /> Impressively, this was written when Jill Murphy was still a teenager herself and has gone on to sell millions of copies. There are shades of Harry Potter to it (although this came long before) but it’s written for a slightly younger audience. One of a series.<br /> <br /> <strong>Other favourites by the same author:</strong><br /> <br /> Peace at Last<br /> <br /> Whatever Next!</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Worst-Witch-Young-Puffin-Story/dp/0141314508/ref=pd_ts_b_3?ie=UTF8&s=books" target="_blank">The Worst Witch</a>, Jill Murphy, £3.99, published by Puffin.</p>

- A bear called Paddington<p> 40 years on and presumably Mr and Mrs Brown are still regretting adopting this accident prone little bear, after finding him at Paddington Station.</p> <p> A charming, now classic story which will induce nostalgia in many parents and smiles in young readers.</p> <p> <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Bear-Called-Paddington-Michael-Bond/dp/0007174160" target="_blank">A Bear Called Paddington,</a> Michael Bond, £4.99, published by Harper Collins</p>





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