Posts with tag pregnancy
Ask Joanne: I want a baby at 40
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Ask Joanne

What's your dilemma about any aspect of life as a parent? Our experienced life coach Joanne Mallon is here to answer your questions. Send your questions in here and say if you'd like your name to be changed.
CC writes:
I gave birth to a stillborn baby boy last October. Post mortem results came back that there was no medical problem with the baby, and my blood tests came back with no problems.
We decided straight away really that we wanted to try for another baby. I already have three children aged from 19 to 11. Without a baby I don't feel I can get over the loss. I have just turned 40 and my husband is 42. It's been three months but nothing has happened as yet. Do you think I should go to see my doctor as we can't try for ever as age is not on our side?
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Experts say there's "no evidence" that acupuncture helps IVF
Pregnancy & birth, Medical conditions, Latest news
Experts have announced that there is no evidence either acupuncture or Chinese herbal medicine improve the likelihood of getting pregnant through IVF.
Many couples now turn to acupuncture in a bid to get pregnant but the British Fertility Society says this may be a waste of time and money.
The researchers looked at 14 trials involving 2,670 people to come up with their new guidance.
They found that it did not matter what stage of the IVF process acupuncture took place - it still had no effect on the pregnancy or live birth rate.
However they also found it didn't actually do any harm as there was no difference in miscarriage rates either.
The team said there were no rigorous trials published on the use of Chinese herbs, so they decided there was currently no evidence to support the use of these in fertility treatments either.
Eating for two while pregnant may harm the baby
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Latest news
There's some bad news today - pregnant women are being told that they shouldn't be "eating for two" as this may actually be harmful for the baby.
What a load of spoilsports. One of the few benefits of being pregnant (apart from the baby at the end of it) is that you get to pretty much eat what you like. Well, no more, apparently.
Researchers say if women eat diets which are high in fat or carbohydrates this can affect genes in their children.
So all those cheese sandwiches were probably a bad idea, then?
The study found that girls are more likely to be affected genetically by what their mother eats, although sons of obese mothers are more likely to become obese and develop diabetes as they get older.
The research was published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, and was based on observations of pregnant mice. Right. Mice. Okay then.
Ask Joanne: How can I support my friend who had a stillbirth?

What's your dilemma about any aspect of life as a parent? Our experienced life coach Joanne Mallon is here to answer your questions. Send your questions in here and say if you'd like your name to be changed.
AJ writes:
My friend was pregnant but she had a stillbirth a month back and is determined to get pregnant again. She only thinks about having another baby. She has changed, is aggressive towards everyone and blames all her friends and family because she is trying for another baby but it's not happening for her.
She is different with me because I'm due to have a baby in a couple months, which wasn't planned. She has asked to be at my labour but I don't think she has got over her first born child. Do you think i should let her be and try for another baby or should I try and talk to her about it?
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R: What is relation to the brim?
Towards the end of pregnancy, the baby will normally descend and dip into the woman's pelvic cavity, which is a process known as engagement. The baby will normally descend head-first, although it can be bottom or feet-first if the baby is in the breech position. In the normal head-first position, relation to the brim is the terminology used to describe how much of the baby's head can still be felt resting above the pelvic cavity. This in turn reveals how much, if any, of the baby's head is engaged.
To make this assessment, the baby's head is divided into fifths. The lower the number, the lower the baby is. For example, a baby that is 5/5 has not yet descended into the pelvis and is resting above the pelvic cavity. A baby described as 4/5 (four fifths) has the top part of its head in the pelvis.
M: What is a molar pregnancy?
A molar pregnancy is a rare and unusual complication. It happens from the moment of conception, and occurs when the dividing cells form incorrectly. A molar pregnancy is always unsustainable.In a normal pregnancy, the fertilised egg will receive 23 chromosomes from both parents, making a total of 46. In a molar pregnancy, an incorrect amount of chromosomes pair together, and the cells that will form the placenta are also abnormal.
There are two types of molar pregnancy, complete and partial.
In a complete molar pregnancy, the fertilised egg will not receive any chromosomes from the mother. Instead, it will have two copies of the father's chromosomes. Because of this totally incorrect structure, neither an embryo nor amniotic sac will grow. However, a placenta will begin to form but will be abnormal, and will develop into a mass of cysts.
Ask Joanne: I have sons but I want a daughter
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Siblings, Ask Joanne

What's your dilemma about any aspect of life as a parent? Our experienced life coach Joanne Mallon is here to answer your questions. Send your questions in here and say if you'd like your name to be changed.
Suma writes:
Right from day one of our marriage, my husband and I wanted to have a baby girl. But unfortunately we have two boys. I am 38 years old now. I badly want a girl, but I do not want to take another risk and get pregnant with a boy. My question is, are there any ways/method to have a child of our desire? Please help.
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What to expect during your second labour
We've all probably read the reports on supermodel Gisele Bundchen, who apparently didn't find it painful giving birth to her first child Benjamin in December. For us lesser mortals it's not quite the same. If you're thinking of having your second child, or are pregnant with number two, you will know only too well what labour is exactly like.
And the question uppermost in your mind might be: will it hurt so much second time around?
Ask Joanne - Am I too old to have a baby?
Pregnancy & birth, Celeb parenting, Ask Joanne
What's your biggest challenge in family life? Send your questions and dilemmas to experienced life coach Joanne Mallon via this confidential form. Your name can be changed on request.Angie asks:
I'm in a new relationship, and got pregnant on the first date, at the age of
42. My daughter is nearly three. My periods are regular as clockwork. - twenty eight days on the dot but no sign of another pregnancy...any advice??? thank you
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Pregnant women can reduce chance of MS for babies by drinking milk
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Latest news
Women who are expecting babies can reduce their child's risk of developing multiple sclerosis when they are older - by simply drinking milk.
That's the finding from a study carried out by the Harvard School of Public Health in Boston, USA.
Researchers looked at 35,794 female nurses whose mothers gave information about their diet during pregnancy.
Over a 16-year period, 199 of the nurses developed multiple sclerosis (MS).
The researchers discovered that the risk of MS was lower in the women whose mothers had drunk a lot of milk when they were pregnant.
Vitamin D was also found to have a similar effect in reducing the risk of MS.
P: What is the perineum?
In females, the perineum is the area of skin that stretches from the opening of the vagina round to the back passage. It is a highly sensitive area and contains many nerve endings.The condition of the perineum plays a role in labour and birth as this is the area that may tear once a baby's head begins to emerge. In some cases, a woman's perineum will be cut, and this is known as an episiotomy.
While health professionals prefer to avoid performing an episiotomy, it is often done if a baby is in distress; if the woman needs an instrumental birth, or if the perineum is showing signs of tearing.
If mother and baby are coping well with the final stages of birth, the mother will be told to pant during those final stages to help control the speed at which the baby's head is delivered, which will reduce the chances of tearing.
Baby dies from mother's gum disease
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Medical conditions, Latest news
An unborn baby died because its mother had gum disease, it has been reported.
Pregnant women are now being warned about the dangers of poor dental hygiene.
It is very rare for something like this to happen - this is thought to be the first time oral bacteria was responsible for the death of a baby which had nearly reached full term.
The case was revealed in a study published in the Obstetrics and Gynaecology journal.
A 35-year-old woman had the common gum disease gingivitis.
Her baby was stillborn at 39 weeks and doctors found they could trace the oral bacteria in the mum's mouth to bacteria which was found in the baby's bloodstream, lungs and stomach.
15 weeks pregnant: Don't forget the baby!
Pregnancy & birth, Weekly pregnancy diary
I woke up a couple of days ago and realized something. I feel normal again. As in, I don't really feel pregnant anymore. That is, the nausea is gone, the getting up in the middle of the night to go and pee has subsided and my skin seems to be returning to normal. My hair is behaving itself – in fact it feels thicker and heavier – and I've noticed my fingernails are growing at an alarming rate. I even have more energy and am starting to feel more feminine and sexy!So it would seem I have finally hit that second trimester period of wellness everyone has been telling me about! My midwife says that this is because my body has now become used to the pregnancy. The next milestone I've become preoccupied with is when I will feel the baby move inside me – this is known as 'quickening'. Of course, this won't happen until around at least 18 weeks and more likely from 20 weeks, especially as this is my first pregnancy.
New pill to stop pregnancy after up to five days
Babies, Pregnancy & birth, Latest news
A new "morning-after" pill can stop unwanted pregnancies up to five days after sex, it has been reported.
The drug was tested in a study of 5,500 women, published in the Lancet, and stopped 98% of pregnancies when taken five days after unprotected sex.
It's called Ellaone, and is almost twice as effective after three days as the conventional "morning-after" pill which is usually given out by chemists.
The Sun reports this news with an inflammatory headline - "5-day pill to 'dump' a baby". Nice and sensitive, then.
The Daily Mail has found an anti-abortion campaigner to criticise the pill, calling it an "abortive agent".
Josephine Quintavalle, of the Pro-Life Alliance, told the Mail: "If you take a morning-after pill within 24 hours, there is always the argument that the sperm may not have fertilised the egg by then, meaning pregnancy has not yet happened.
"But if this pill works for five days there is no argument. This is not a contraceptive, it is an abortive agent."
But researcher Dr Anna Glasier, of NHS Lothian in Edinburgh, told the Sun: "If it stops more unwanted pregnancies, that is money well spent."
I couldn't agree more.


















